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JAN.
31, 2005
HOLIDAYS
A dozen story ideas for Lent,
Easter and Passover
Lent begins with
Ash Wednesday on Feb. 9, leading to Easter on March 27. Passover begins at sundown
April 23, and Orthodox Easter is May 1. ReligionLink offers 12 fresh angles
on these ancient observances.
LENT
/ HOLY WEEK
In a world of violence, how do kids see Jesus' death?
A 'Passion' for Easter?
Good Friday: a secular holiday, too?
Mary, mirror of many mothers
Hispanics honor solemn traditions
Easter retreats: ancient practices renewed
Alone and together
EASTER
Ministry marathon: Easter dash
Easter in emergent churches
Orthodox honor 'Forgiveness Sunday'
PASSOVER
Working women's Passover panic
Jews wander on Passover
LENT
/ HOLY WEEK
In a world of violence,
how do kids see Jesus' death?
The news, video
games, television and movies are chock-full of violence these days, as are many
neighborhoods. Yet so is the story of Jesus' death. So how does the message
of Holy Week play to young minds that, many experts say, have become desensitized
to violence?
Last year there
was a roaring debate over whether Mel Gibson's powerful and controversial film
The Passion of the Christ was suitable viewing for children and teenagers.
The film was rated R, but some pastors hauled youth groups by the busload to
watch it. Some parents kept their children away, while others welcomed the opportunity
to teach their children - some still in grade school - more about Jesus' death
and the sacrifice that Christians believe he made.
How do churches
talk to children about Jesus' suffering in a world in which they are inundated
by images of suffering and death? And how do children grasp an important and
complex theological message in this story amid the rest of the violence to which
they are exposed?
Talk to pastors,
Sunday school teachers, parents and seminary professors about what they have
seen. Do they think children in today's media-saturated world respond any differently
to the story of Jesus' suffering and death than children used to? Do they present
the message in any different way? What do they say to children about violence
in the Bible?
Interview teenagers
or young adults about their early impressions of the Easter story. Do they think
the violence they encounter on television - both in "entertainment"
and on the news - affects how children respond to the Resurrection? Do they
think children are becoming less sensitive to depictions of violence? What difference
do they think that makes?
RESOURCES
Read a statement from the American
Academy of Pediatrics on the impact of violence on children. It states that
the average American child watches as much as 28 hours of television a week
and that viewing violence can lead to emotional desensitization, to a perception
that the world is a mean and violent place, and to children becoming more violent
themselves later in life.
Read the results of a survey
released in September 2004 by the Kaiser Family Foundation showing that a majority
of parents of young children said they were very concerned about the amount
of sex and violence their children see on television.
Read the results of a 15-year
longitudinal study released in March 2003 by University of Michigan researchers
who found that children's viewing of violent television shows, their identification
with aggressive characters and their perception that TV violence is realistic
were linked to later aggression as young adults.
Read an essay
by Karen Maudlin, a psychologist specializing in family therapy, on how
to talk to children of different ages about Jesus' crucifixion. It's posted
on Beliefnet.com.
Read a Feb.
16, 2004, USA Today story about pastors encouraging parents to take
their children to see The Passion of the Christ. Also see a March
2004 story from The Tidings, the newspaper of the Roman Catholic
Archdiocese of Los Angeles, about whether Catholic teenagers should see the
film and what it might teach them about Jesus' life and resurrection.
A
'Passion' for Easter?
Despite being snubbed
by the Oscars, the runaway success of The Passion of the Christ upended
the conventional wisdom of Hollywood. It may have also had an enduring effect
on Easter services across the country. The blockbuster was made by Mel Gibson,
a traditionalist Catholic, but Protestants, and especially evangelicals, were
the movie's biggest fans. Christian leaders and the filmmakers are urging congregations
to use the Passion as a ministry tool, especially this Easter. The success of
The Passion coincides with the increasing use of media in church services, but
widespread use of the movie for Easter events raises new issues: Will such a
traditionally Catholic presentation become a kind of evangelical "Stations
of the Cross"? Will it replace or add to the Passion depictions that are
increasingly being staged in Broadway-style productions in Protestant churches?
Will the movie supplant the old-time Passion Plays that have been a staple of
Catholic life?
RESOURCES
The
Passion of the Christ
home page is advertising a new DVD version that includes film clips and
stills designed for use in worship services. The promotion says churches "can
use this Church Resource DVD to motivate and empower your congregation through
sermon illustrations, power point presentations, bulletin covers/inserts and
more." The release date is Feb.1, 2005, with delivery promised in time
for Holy Week. The $24.95 price includes a certificate good for one licensed
showing of the full-screen version of The Passion.
ThePassionOutreach.com
offers promotional products and ideas for using the movie in ministry. The suggestions
include theater buyouts, prayer walks based on the movie, and a "Passion
Easter Service" using themes from the movie.
Several homily sites, such as SermonCentral.com,
are advertising sermons based on the movie, and evangelizing organizations such
as Youth
for Christ have resource guides and elaborate curriculums for churches and
ministries to tailor the "Passion" for evangelistic purposes.
The North American Mission Board of the Southern Baptist Convention also
has a Passion web site to help congregations incorporate the movie into
their ministry.
For more background
and interview sources see these previous ReligionLink tips:
"'Passion'
plays out locally" (Feb. 17, 2004)
"Screen
saviors: beyond 'Passion'" (Sept. 29, 2003)
"The
triumphs and tensions of faith-based marketing" (March 29, 2004)
Good
Friday: a secular holiday, too?
In 2001 the U.S.
Supreme Court let stand a ruling that said Christmas could be a federal holiday
because it had secular as well as religious purposes. But what about Good Friday?
It's observed as a holiday in 12 states, in which state government offices and
public schools close for the day. In a handful of other states, only government
offices are closed on Good Friday, or the day is an optional holiday.
Church-state separationists
and some non-Christians have criticized making a government holiday out of the
day Christians commemorate Jesus' death on the cross. Legal challenges have
been filed to mixed results. The 9th, 6th and 4th U.S. Circuit Courts have upheld
laws that make Good Friday a holiday for either schools or state employees,
saying that because Easter has become increasingly secularized, the Friday before
Easter has become a traditional day to start preparations for days off that
benefit people of all religions. However, the 7th U.S. Circuit Court ruled that
such laws were unconstitutional in closing schools, but not for giving state
employees a day off if the government could give a legitimate secular reason
for doing so. In 2000, the U.S. Supreme Court decided not to review the 4th
U.S. Circuit Court ruling, allowing the conflicting rulings from the various
Circuit Courts to stand.
Is Good Friday
a holiday for schools or state employees or both in your state? If not, is there
a movement to make it a holiday? Who is involved? What are their motivations?
If your state does make the day a holiday, is there opposition? From whom?
RESOURCES
Read an American
Atheists commentary on a Jan. 19, 2000, decision by the U.S. Supreme Court
to allow a Maryland statute to stand. The statute requires public schools to
close on Good Friday. It lists the states that have Good Friday holidays and
relevant court cases.
A
segment
on the web site About.com looks at the legal questions surrounding making Good
Friday a state holiday.
Religioustolerance.com offer a snapshot
of the court decisions involving Good Friday holidays.
Read a Dec.
21, 2000, Associated Press story posted by the Cincinnati Enquirer
about a U.S. Court of Appeals ruling that Christmas can continue to be a legal
holiday, as it has been since 1870, because it has a secular purpose.
Read the Becket Fund's page
on Ganulin v. United States, in which a Cincinnati lawyer filed suit to
argue that Christmas should not be designated a federal holiday because doing
so is a government endorsement of Christianity.
Barry Lynn is executive director of Americans
United for the Separation of Church and State, a lobbying group based in
Washington, D.C. Contact 202-466-3234.
Melissa Rogers is a visiting professor of religion and public policy
at the Divinity School at Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem, N.C. She
wrote the article "Traditions of Church-State Separation: Some Ways They
Have Protected Religion and Advanced Religious Freedom and How They are Threatened
Today" for the journal University of Virginia Journal of Law and Politics
(2002). Contact 336-758-5121, rogersm@wfu.edu.
Philip Hamburger is a law professor at the University of Chicago. He
wrote the book Separation of Church and State (Harvard University Press,
2002). Contact 773-834-4162, philip_hamburger@law.uchicago.edu.
Mary,
mirror of many mothers
Many Christians
have a hard time imagining what Jesus' mother, Mary, endured as he suffered,
died and was buried on that first Good Friday. Her stoic acceptance seems almost
beyond the humanly possible. But perhaps some modern-day parents - for example,
those whose own sons or daughters are in harm's way in Iraq or Afghanistan -
feel a special kinship with her because of it. Talk to some of these parents
about how their faith helps them accept and cope with their fears for their
child. Does Mary's example inspire them? Do Catholics, who are known for their
devotion to Mary, relate differently to her on this than Protestants do?
RESOURCES
Scott
Hahn is a professor of theology and Scripture at Franciscan University of
Steubenville in Steubenville, Ohio, and the founder and director of the St.
Paul Center for Biblical Theology. A former Protestant minister who converted
to Catholicism, his books include Hail, Holy Queen: The Mother of God in
the Word of God (Doubleday, 2001), which examines the Marian doctrines and
the importance of Mary in the Christian faith. Contact 740-283-1016, office@scotthahn.com.
Cheri
Fuller is a Christian speaker and author whose son, Lt. Chris Fuller, is
a Navy doctor who has been deployed to Iraq. She encourages people to organize
prayer
groups in their homes or churches to lift up service members and their families,
and she is launching a web
site for military families that will provide spiritual and other resources.
Contact 405-973-5273, cheri@cherifuller.com.
MilitaryWivesandMoms.org
is an online resource for those with spouses or offspring in the military. It
includes message boards for requesting or offering prayers. Contact the organizers
by email on the site.
Beverly
Roberts Gaventa is Helen H.P. Manson Professor of New Testament literature
and exegesis at Princeton Theological Seminary. She wrote Mary: Glimpses
of the Mother of Jesus (Augsburg Fortress Publishers, 1999) and co-edited
Blessed One: Protestant Perspectives on Mary (Westminster John Knox Press,
2002). Contact Beverly.Gaventa@ptsem.edu.
Hispanics
honor solemn traditions
Ethnic groups bring
their own traditions to religious holidays in the United States, but as they
assimilate into mainstream American culture, the old traditions often fade away.
That would also be true of the traditions both Catholic and Protestant Hispanics
bring to Easter if new waves of immigrants from Latin America didn't make sure
the old ways continue in their new country. For Hispanics, Semana Santa,
or Holy Week, leading up to Pasqua, or Easter, is a solemn event. In
fact, the three days before Easter - Holy Thursday, Good Friday and Holy Saturday
- are more central to Hispanic Catholics than Easter Sunday itself. Good Friday
in particular is observed as a day of mourning. It includes the Pesame,
which is a condolence Mass for Mary; the Stations of the Cross, in which Jesus'
ordeal is re-created; and the Siete Palabras, or the Seven Words, in
which Christ's final words are recited. In many families, music and television
are barred on that day.
How do Easter traditions
for new Hispanic immigrants differ from those of Hispanics who have been in
the United States for generations? How do churches accommodate new immigrant
Hispanics' Easter traditions? How do Hispanic Easter traditions play out in
your community?
RESOURCES
Read an
April
11, 2004, Arizona Daily Star article on Hispanic Easter traditions.
A
March
16, 2001, article in The Leaven, the newspaper for the Catholic Archdiocese
of Kansas City, Kan., looks at Hispanic traditions for Lent and Holy Week.
Timothy
Matovina is an associate professor of theology at the University of Notre Dame.
He is an expert in theology and culture, specializing in U.S. Catholic and U.S.
Latino theology and religion. Contact 574-631-3841, Matovina.1@nd.edu.
Ana
Maria Diaz-Stevens is a professor of church and society at the Union Theological
Seminary in New York. She is an expert on the impact of Hispanic culture on
the Catholic Church. Contact 212-280-1362, dstevens@uts.columbia.edu.
Peter
Casarella is an associate professor at the School of Theology and Religious
Studies at Catholic University of America in Washington, D.C. He wrote the book
El Cuerpo de Cristo: The Hispanic Presence in the U.S. Catholic Church
(Crossroad Publishing, 1998). Contact 202-319-5683, casarelp@cua.edu.
Easter
retreats: ancient practices renewed
For many Christians,
the Lenten tradition of turning inward is accomplished by retreating from ordinary
life in a contemplative or meditative setting. For journalists, it's a chance
to engage people of faith in interviews about how they keep their religious
commitments alive within lives overwhelmed by demands and activities. How have
past retreats deepened or awakened participants' faith? Why are they going this
year? Check community listings and contact churches to learn about retreats
in your area. Many non-Christian religions, including Judaism, schedule retreats
to take advantage of spring school breaks, so don't limit inquiries to Christians.
Some retreats are urban and some rural. Some people travel to retreats and others
take advantage of a retreat house or gathering place near home or church. Some
retreats are silent, others involve community prayer and still others stress
the individual's restoration and relationship with God.
Ask participants
how retreats have deepened or awakened participants' faith. What do people going
this year expect to gain? What changes do religious leaders see in people who
attend retreats? Scholars can explain the history of contemplative prayer and
silent retreats. How do people say they balance retreat and engagement in daily
life?
RESOURCES
Here
are examples of the variety of approaches to the Easter retreat:
Contemplative Outreach offers a Centering
Prayer Retreat in Northern California Easter weekend. Contemplative Outreach
is a spiritual network of individuals and small faith communities committed
to living the contemplative dimension of the Gospel in everyday life through
the practice of Centering Prayer. Find local
Contemplative Outreach chapters.
The Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) in Orange County in Southern
California sponsor an annual
Easter retreat at a mountain retreat center.
"Unplugged"
is the theme of the Episcopal Diocese of Virginia's Easter retreat for clergy,
lay professionals and their families.
The Episcopalian Christ Church Cathedral in Indianapolis celebrates its
"Journey in Faith" Easter Retreat the week after Easter right inside
the church. Contact Arizeder Urreiztieta, communications director, 317-636-4577
ext. 608, arizederu@cccindy.org.
The Christine Center, a retreat center in central Wisconsin honoring
traditions of mystical spirituality, meditation and contemplation, hosts a weekend
retreat at Easter, including daily spiritual rituals, spiritual guidance, and
an Easter service and celebration. Contact 715-267-7507.
The
Abode of the Message near New Lebanon, N.Y., in the Berkshire Mountains,
offers a retreat on Easter weekend. The abode is the home of Pir Zia Inayat
Khan, grandson and successor of Hazrat Pir-o-Murshid Inayat Khan, founder of
the mystical Sufi Order (of Islam) in the West. (Read Pir Zia Inayat Khan's
"The
Paradox of Universal Sufism" to learn more about the mystical tradition.)
Call 518-794-8095.
Suzanne G. Farnham is founder and program director of the Baltimore-based
Listening
Hearts Ministries, which designs and leads retreats for religious organizations
and congregations around the country. Farnham is co-author of Listening Hearts:
Discerning Call in Community (Morehouse Publishing, 1991) and she wrote
Retreat Designs and Meditation Exercises (Morehouse Publishing, 1994),
books widely used by groups of many denominations in religious retreats. Contact:
410-366-1851, listening@verizon.net.
JoAnn
Heaney-Hunter is an associate professor of theology and religious studies at
St. John's University in Jamaica, N.Y. She is particularly knowledgeable about
couples' retreats and about Christian practice in marriage and families. Ask
her about how retreats may relieve stress and strengthen religious practice
for individuals in families or marriages. Contact 718-990-5428, heaneyhj@stjohns.edu.
Alone
and together
At this time of
year, Christians and Jews divide their observances between communal practices
- Lenten soup suppers, Passover seders and worship services - and solitary practices,
such as fasting, study and prayer. What are the benefits or limits of solo and
communal worship and practice, if only one is done? How do they enhance each
other? Is it possible to fully honor Lent and Passover by worshipping only alone
or only in a group? Which do people find it harder to make time for - community
or individual devotions? Are churches and synagogues adopting new practices
or adapting old ones in efforts to tailor them to their members' busy lives?
RESOURCES
Vanessa Ochs is the author of The Book of Jewish Sacred Practices: CLAL's
Guide to Everyday and Holiday Rituals and Blessings (Jewish Lights, 2001).
She is an associate professor of Jewish Studies at the University of Virginia
in Charlottesville, Va. Contact 434-924-6722, Vochs@virginia.edu.
Lawrence
Hoffman is a rabbi and a professor of liturgy at Hebrew Union College-Jewish
Institute of Religion in New York, N.Y. He has written and edited The Art
of Public Prayer: Not for Clergy Only (Skylight Paths, 1999), which has
been used by both Christian and Jewish congregations to plan liturgy. Contact
212-824-2234, lhoffman@huc.edu.
Ruth Haley Barton
is co-founder of The
Transforming Center, an organization in Warrenville, Ill., that helps develop
church leaders. She teaches separate workshops on encountering God alone and
in community. She is the author of Invitation to Solitude and Silence: Experiencing
God's Transforming Presence (Intervarsity Press, 2004). Contact 630-665-3383,
rhbarton@thetransformingcenter.org.
Richard
Wagner is the author of the Christian web site Digitalwalk
and the author of Christian Prayer for Dummies (For Dummies, 2002), which
includes chapters on praying alone and praying in groups. Contact rich@digitalwalk.net.
EASTER
Ministry marathon: Easter
dash
Consider the growth
of multisite megachurches, where one church adds satellite campuses in nearby
cities and pastors run from one to another on Sunday morning. Add the influx
of holiday worshippers and extra Easter services, and many pastors will be running
around like the Easter Bunny on the big day. The decline in the number of clergy
in some denominations, particularly in rural areas, also creates clergy crunch
time, with ministers dashing from one church to another.
Many clergy are
already overworked, but feel an added obligation to perform well at services
crowded with people who don't regularly attend church. The growing desire for
worship services to be highly orchestrated and emotionally charged "events"
means that the people who lead them feel a need to be at their best, clergy
consultants say.
RESOURCES
The Dallas-based Leadership
Network has a Multi-Site
Churches Leadership group that was created for churches that meet at multiple
locations. These multisite, churches have many of the attributes of the large
church along with some distinctive benefits and challenges. The director of
the program is Greg Ligon. Contact 214-969-5950, greg.ligon@leadnet.org.
The "Pulpit
& Pew" research project at Duke Divinity School is a leading resource
for studies and experts on clergy issues. Contact 919-660-3423, pulpitandpew@div.duke.edu.
The Hartford
Institute for Religion Research at the Hartford Seminary is an excellent
resource and includes a database
of more than 800 megachurches in the United States. Contact Scott Thumma, professor
of the sociology of religion at Hartford Seminary, 860-509-9571, sthumma@hartsem.edu.
The Alban Institute
in Herndon, Va., provides data and expert commentators on congregational and
clergy dynamics. The institute is led by James P. Wind. Contact 703-964-2700.
See this November
2004 Fort Worth Star-Telegram story (free registration required)
about Fellowship Church, a Grapevine, Texas, megachurch that is opening two
satellite campuses.
See this Sept.
8, 2004, ReligionLink tip on megachurches for sources.
Easter
in emergent churches
The emergent,
or postmodern, church is marked by creative worship forms and a disregard for
denominational authority. They like to "do it themselves," and many
of their innovations - like praise music and small group ministry - are later
adopted by more traditional churches. Emergent churches commonly attract the
young and the previously "unchurched," people typically unfamiliar
with the traditional forms of Lenten and Easter worship. How do emerging churches
celebrate Easter and Lent? How quickly do their ways of "doing" the
church holidays spread to other, more traditional churches?
RESOURCES
Emergingchurch.org has a list
of emerging church congregations in the United States.
Dan Kimball is pastor of Vintage
Faith Church in Santa Cruz, Calif. and author of The Emerging Church:
Vintage Christianity for a New Generation (Zondervan, 2003). Contact via
the church, 831-429-1058.
Diana
Butler Bass is director of the Project
on Congregations of Intentional Practice, a group that tracks new practices
within mainline Protestant denominations, and author of The Practicing Congregation:
Imagining a New Old Church (Alban Institute, 2004). Contact 703-461-1730,
dbass@vts.edu.
David J. Lose is a Lutheran pastor and an assistant professor of homiletics
and leadership at Luther Seminary in St. Paul, Minn. He is author of Confessing
Jesus Christ: Preaching in a Postmodern World (Wm. B. Eerdmans, 2003). Contact
651-641-3455, dlose@luthersem.edu.
John Berryhill is the executive director of the Emerging
Church Network, an Austin, Texas-based consultancy firm that fosters emerging
church leaders in the United States. Contact johnb@emergingchurchnetwork.com/.
Orthodox
honor 'Forgiveness Sunday'
In the Orthodox
Church, Lent is a rich season of special liturgies, colorful services and seasonal
hymns that build toward the Holy Week, then Pascha (Easter) itself. One
of the most evocative and representative traditions to write about is Forgiveness
Sunday, with its special liturgy on the eve of the Lenten fast. Besides the
traditional forgiveness liturgy, some churches offer a moving forgiveness ritual
after Sunday vespers. The service varies, but often includes the chance for
worshippers to ask forgiveness and to offer it to each other. It's an opportunity
to enter Lent cleansed and in a receptive frame of mind. Although the Orthodox
Lenten fast can be quite austere, the emphasis is less on sacrifice than on
forgiveness, repentance and the internal transformation of Christians striving
to reach new lives inspired by the life and resurrection of Jesus.
This year, Orthodox
Easter - which must always occur after Passover is finished - is May 1, five
weeks later than Western Easter. Forgiveness Sunday is March 13. The formula
for calculating the date of Orthodox Easter was devised at the First Council
of Nicea, in the fourth century. In 2005, Lent begins Monday, March 14 (Orthodox
don't observe Ash Wednesday).
Forgiveness Sunday
is also called "Cheese Fair Sunday," because it's the last chance
to eat dairy products before Lent begins and animal products are eschewed. The
first day of Lent often is called "Clean Monday."
Orthodoxy comprises
a family of national churches deriving from the original patriarchies of Alexandria,
Constantinople, Jerusalem, Antioch (Lebanon) and Rome. After the Great Schism
(1054 CE), Orthodox churches and Rome split. Three main (and many smaller) Orthodox
traditions predominate in the United States. Contact information and web sites
where local parishes can be located are listed below.
RESOURCES
Primate of the Greek Orthodox
Archdiocese of America is Archbishop Demetrios, in New York. Contact Nikki
Stephanopoulos, press officer, 212-570-3530, Nikki@goarch.org.
Find local parishes.
Primate of the Orthodox
Church in America (historically Russian) is Metropolitan Herman, located
in Syosset, N.Y. Contact Father John Matusiak, communications director, 630-668-3071,
jjm@oca.org, or find other
sources for reporters. Find local
parishes.
Primate of the Antiochian
Orthodox Christian Archdiocese in North America (historically Arab) is Metropolitan
Philip, in Englewood, N.J. Contact Father George Kevorkian, hierarchical assistant
to Metropolitan Philip, 201-871-1355. Find a local
parish.
Read "An
Orthodox Easter," an April 9, 2004, description of Greek Orthodox Easter
services published in the Wall Street Journal online opinion pages and
written by Eastern Orthodox theologian David Hart.
For
Western Christians, Shrove Tuesday (Feb. 8, 2005), the day before Ash Wednesday,
also focuses on forgiveness. It, too, is the last day before Lent begins, a
day to indulge in soon-to-be-abstained-from foods. According to the American
Heritage Dictionary, the verb shrive
(past tense is shrove) involves giving or obtaining absolution and confession.
Kyriacos C. Markides is a professor of sociology at the University of
Maine and author of The Mountain of Silence: a Search for Orthodox Spirituality
(Doubleday/Random House, 2001). Contact 207-581-2390, markides@maine.edu.
For more sources, see an April
21, 2003, ReligionLink tip on the physical, emotional and spiritual benefits
of forgiveness.
PASSOVER
Working
women's Passover panic
For many Jews,
the celebration of Passover (Pesach, beginning at sundown April 23) is
a wonderful thing. They love the traditions, the food, the retelling of the
story of the Jews' freedom from slavery. Passover is one of the most popular
Jewish holidays, and it's typically celebrated with friends and family of all
ages gathering around a Seder - home-cooked, of course. But some working women
acknowledge that doing Passover "right" involves weeks of exhausting
work - emptying the cupboards of every scrap of leavened food (called chametz),
cleaning meticulously, hauling out special dishes, preparing the traditional
foods. One woman told of being so tired from the preparation that she fell asleep
at the Seder table. These working women want to make Passover special for their
families, but they also want it to be a time of real spiritual freedom, not
of kitchen enslavement.
Talk to Jewish
women about how they approach Passover - whether they follow all the rules,
whether they cut corners, whether they look forward to it with anticipation
or dread. Is preparing for Pesach considered "women's work," or does
everyone in the family help out? What do single people do? Do younger women
approach Passover in the same way their mothers and grandmothers did, or are
attitudes changing? And how important is perfection anyway - how clean does
the house really need to be?
Talk to people
at synagogues and Jewish seminaries about the spiritual significance of Passover
and ways that busy Jews can try to balance the stress with a sense of freedom
that Passover commemorates. Is there a way to turn the physical work into something
spiritual?
Find experienced
Seder-givers who can provide tips for doing some of the work ahead (make the
matzo balls and freeze them) or breaking it down into manageable steps. Look
for observant families who work as a team and have discovered joy in passing
down the traditions and in the annual spring cleaning. And what about a potluck
Seder?
Particularly in
bigger cities, check out restaurants that offer Passover Seders or caterers
that will deliver traditional Seder foods. Some delis or grocery stores offer
take-out Seder food - brisket or gefilte fish to go?
RESOURCES
Read an article from the Spring 2003 issue of Jewish Woman magazine titled
"Too
Much on Your Plate," in which working women talk about the stress of
preparing for Passover and what they do to make it more manageable and spiritually
significant.
Read results from the 2000
National Jewish Population Survey, which found that most American Jews -
whether they are affiliated with a synagogue or not - either hold or attend
a Passover Seder.
Read an essay by Judith Hauptman titled "Pesah:
A Liberating Experience for Women," which explains how in the classical
rabbinical texts, the rabbis struggled with the question of the role of women
in celebrating Pesah (as she spells it). Hauptman writes that "the
painstaking conversion of the kitchen from leaven-filled to leaven-free status
has turned the Festival of Freedom into an intense period of domestic labor
rather than a celebration of personal and national liberation. That was not
the intention of the halakhah." Hauptman is a Talmud professor at Jewish
Theological Seminary of America and the author of Rereading the Rabbis: A
Woman's Voice (Westview Press, 1998).
Jews
wander on Passover
While many Jews
prefer to be among family and friends in their own homes during Passover, the
more adventurous want their chopped liver poolside. "Pesach in Acapulco!"
the WanderingJew.Net web site promises. Why be stuck inside when you could be
sunning on a hammock on a kosher cruise?
TotallyJewishTravel.com
advertises Passover vacations in more than 100 locales, including the Caribbean,
Israel, Mexico, Australia and Argentina. If you want to stick closer to home,
there's the "Magical Passover" program in Orlando. For observant Jews,
there's nothing un-kosher about traveling to a hotel where the food is Glatt
Kosher. MatzaFunTours even offers the kosher "South Beach" option
for those skipping the noodle kugel.
The cost of such
10-night excursions ranges from $2,500, not including airfare, to $7,000, depending
on the quality of the hotel. The reasons for taking a Passover break vary. It's
a popular option for the newly widowed. Some people want to avoid the elaborate
process of cleaning and preparing their houses for Passover. Many families designate
Passover as their annual family vacation, sometimes traveling in groups of 20
or more. In the words of one tour agent: "It's not just Passover. It's
MatzaFun!"
RESOURCES
Jerry Abramson's MatzaFunTours
in Cherry Hill, N.J., says it has hosted Passover Seder vacations with numerous
activities for almost two decades. Contact Abramson at 856-979-7193, info@matzafun.com.
The Wandering Jew.net,
part of Ontario Travel Bureau, is an agency that books more than 50 Passover
events, including Seder cruises. For a good description of the industry, contact
Laurie Neuman van Esschoten, 909-984-2761, laurie@ontariotravelbureau.com.
TotallyJewishTravel.com
sells advertising space for Passover events in more than 40 U.S. locations and
on five continents. It's a good place to look for an overview.
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